1/25/09

Where DO U and Your S.O. want to settle down at?

My answer is I have no where to go yet! i mean i don't know where or how can i settle down since i still have a very long way to go...Sigh!!

I've been growing up in srok khmer. I went to university straight after high school, and I studied 2 majors, law and psychology…u couldn’t imagine how difficult I was! Since I had no choice! I got (stupid) government scholarship for my psychology field but I really like law field so I decided taking both…what a stupid!

One day, on the way back home at primary school, I saw a poor kid sleeping at a yard under raining holding his empty body, I felt sorry for him. I was thinking that I was lucky, and wouldn’t wish my family could afford me to buy a toy that I really love any more! This has been in my head 22 years, so I plan to help not only the boy I saw, but also the rest who need help. Being a lawyer or even a popular international law area would help them a lot. However, this dream would be really tough and I don’t know if I could do better than I think or worse.

I am a very busy girl. I’ve been struggling with my life, and challenge with many difference experiences how to success and go to the right way to reach my dream. So I end up stay single 22years no bf, am I idiot? I regret sometime but I’m proud of myself. Most of my female friends are getting married one by one [sigh]. So my parents start talking to me that I should working hard and also take time to think about future life too… but if I settle down now my future study would be disappear! And being a famous international lawyer wouldn’t happen. What a long way is!

I hope it wouldn't that long! sorry it's too privacy but i have no one to share with! my dairy would be my ever best fri to share with.Phchum Ben 2008
In 1995.
In 1993 (I guess), do u see the crocodile in the middle? Ah! I was fighting hard with my nasty little sister :D
In 1992, my grandpa, my brother, me (with a lot money), littler sis and my beautiful mum^^
In 1988, my dad must be a cameraman :-)
In 1987, look at my handsome pa and beautiful mum(^-^)

10 comments:

GB said...

'Having no bf for 22 years...,' i like that part da most [winkie*~~]

Go for what you want, sweetie! Marriage doesn't end your dream, and going for your dream doesn't mean you will have no love! He is just not arrive yet... still transit at some where! ;) Anyway, all da best in whatever choice you make or do!

Love ya!

Anonymous said...

by age 22 is still young!so pls do what u want to do!
sokmean

Anonymous said...

22 years not have Bf is normal you are still young!
so please do what you want to do!
love,sokmean

Kalyan said...

sis, u r still young! don't get distracted by the society! u know in a modern world now, women tend to get married a bit older :)

and guess wht i really feel inspired by this writing. Do follow ur dream! and i should recommend u read "The Last Lecture" by Randy Pausch. :)

Hugs

hikari said...

>> "22 years no bf"

i had thought you haven't had breakfast for 22 years ...joking

There is only one YOU in this world, do what your subconscious mind want to do !

Socheata said...

My Beloved Sister, never forget that a good leader needs to understand human psychologies, and being a lawyer does need this kind of experience to a certain extent. Anyway, one should never compare oneself to others in terms of either inferiority or superiority. Human qualities are incomparable for people achieve things in a different way. One’s simple thing can be a big dream of another as long as the later knows how to enjoy it. Here are some quotes for thought. Hope you’d enjoy them. :)

“Do not depend on the hope of results. You may have to face the fact that your work will be apparently worthless and even achieve no result at all, if not perhaps results opposite to what you expect. As you get used to this idea, you start more and more to concentrate not on the results, but on the value, the rightness, the truth of the work itself.” Thomas Jefferson

“Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.” Albert Schweitzer

“Those who try to do something and fail are infinitely better than those who try nothing and succeed.” Lloyd Jones

“I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death.” Robert Fulghum

“When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which are open for us.” Alexander Graham Bell

Jinja said...

I'm lucky that I have friends from different age groups and different countries. That gives me a lot less pressure. If you keep on to follow your path, you'll meet others along the way who have similar interests and are open-minded.

KK@111 said...

Any applications form left?

Thomas Wanhoff said...

Hey dear, first of all, don't worry about getting married or not. It took me 35 years, so a lot of time is left for you. If you want to have a boyfriend, just take one, but I am sure some are afraid because you are a tough girl and some men just want to have a obedient wife. so take your time and - most important - follow your dreams and feelings. Thats always better then ending up in an unlucky marriage just to please other people. You are intelligent, smart, cute, beautiful, and hearty, so keep on going the way you decide as the one you like. Trust yourself and don't care so much about others. It's an honor for me to know you and I always appreciate to meet you and talk with you.

Anonymous said...

Hey I knew your father. He was my math teacher. haha. I did not know he had daughter smart like you. It was about ten years ago.