3/31/10

Ma gai ma gai kit ta write....HEADACHE hery kjum!

Inspiring Video, IMAGINE!


FIRST I HEARD THE SONG, I THOUGHT I WAS CRAZY HAVING WEIRD IDEA ON HOW TO HELP PEOPLE, BUT AFTER I HAVE INVOLVED ALMOST THREE YEARS NOW, I'VE REALIZED I'M NOT THE ONE, SOMEDAY YOU MIGHT JOIN US :D ENJOY THE SONG, AND KEEP UP YOUR DREAM, DARE TO IMAGINE ^^

3/26/10

Temporary Untitled

At my age now, I find myself having very hard time! My parents become so protecting without any reasonable sometime. I do know that they really care about me, and never accept that I’m a real adult!
My world is so damn weird, even myself sometime I don’t understand too but I do believe that everyone live for their own dream. My world doesn’t exist on my parents’ world. [Damn I don’t know what to write about]
i believe that because of the civil war affect them! they still have a nightmare about it so it makes them become too protected their child. This really abstract us become more yourself! Shy, not confident, afraid of lot things, .... which i found it suck!

I plan to get master abroad, to find myself what i want exactly. I always want to ... See More and explore the world. Meanwhile i'm doing some small family business for my whole family hope they can have a good life here while i'm gone! will come back in a few years or jsut a visit.... hope it will work out as long as m strong tic!
Write more later!

3/16/10

Hot News

Today at 8pm, there was a thief stole a bike cycle happened in front of me at next to my house!!! I had no idea what i can do to stop the thief; http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=38638155get out of the car and stop him, but what if he kick my a**? or i shout?, no way my sound is terrible and not loud enough or should i drive after him, but what can i do even i found him...in result i did nothing :( i feel sorry now!
The main question here is what if the thief is cached? Why does he steal the bike? :( i think you guys might knows the answer... it's just a sample picture!!!

Did you noitice?

3/15/10

Two is better than one???

Did you notice I got only my nails painting in one side?-> easy answer is because i can't paint color on my both hand i only can do one side, on the left.

it's better to have two people than one!!! hm... yab nas

TV Series: Dal Ja's Spring


Single woman in her 30's... happy for self-indulgence...
In the 80's, girls spent their teen years believing that virginity and purity were a woman's virtue. In the 90's, they spent their 20's exclaiming that in order for women to become equal with men, they had to be independent. Then reached their 30's.. thinking that the "big party" (the prime of their lives) was over. Now they begin to realize- from where men sleep (or who they sleep with), from men's competitive nature- what successful liberation is. They learn that trifling matters can be cool. Sometimes it's ok to be mean without giving it a second thought. One can let go of all the money, power, success and still be strong... getting married isn't some homework one has to do. It's great if you marry, and if you don't... ultimately it's a choice...
This is the pattern of life for the 30 year old spinster for the past 21 years. This is the happy, single, golden season of the life she chose.
Single woman in her 30's... love is like a never ending spring day to them too.
A little too old for living recklessly and adventurously, yet young enough not to simply settle down and lead a peaceful (boring) life. Having passion still left in them, yet knowing too much about the world to blindly follow their passions alone. Standing at a major crossroad in their lives... choosing to remain forever single, or to ride the last wedding train. These 30 year old single women, however, still dream about the love as they have always been. Beautiful as ever, this is their story...
At thirty-three, even though the "prime of their lives" may now be over, just like in sketches or portraits, these women are as usual waiting for spring on a beautiful day like today.
In this passage, the Korean word for 'spring' can be, for most parts, interchangeable with its alternate meaning 'prime of their lives.'

Synopsis:
Oh Dal Ja, 33 years old... single. And still waiting for her 'prince' to come. She works as an MD of a home shopping tv show. She has everything... money, power and success. The only thing she dreams about is marriage. Then she meets flirty guy, Shin Se Do, who seemed nice to her. After seeing how Se Do flirts with Yee Son Ju, the host of the home shopping tv show, she seeks revenge. Kang Tae Bong, who has a mysterious past, pretends to be her boyfiend and signs a dating contract with her. But then again, who is this Um Ki Jeong that seemed to be the perfect gentleman? An enterprise representative.. rich, goodlooking, intelligent and courteous. Three men, one woman.. who will win Oh Dal Ja's charm? Who will end up as her 'knight in shining armor?'

PS: I'm so curious whether this true love does exist in real life? Sigh! I do enjoy this movie a lot, and it's a happy, love, romantic movie! I relax much more than other sad love movies... i would give it 9 points. :D

3/7/10

Another article about "Suicide" By Vimean



By vannavuth sochanvimean:
As a psychology student, one among things interests me a lot is a skill of negotiator, I mean suicide negotiator. I've been wondering about how those professionals are so capable. One day I experience it my self. In2005, there was a student, who came to commit suicide attempt on the6th floor of Royal University of Phnom Penh (RUPP) A building, exactlyin front of the class I was studying. Oh gosh! everyone freaked out. As a a student in psychology department, I was motivated to talk to the guy attempting to jump from the building. Guess what? I never know how clumsy I was. I didn't know what to do so I just called out the guy and said if there was anything I could give him a hand.


I wasn't thinking except I felt like his life might be lost in my hand, if I kept clumsily behaving. But I didn't know, I really didn't know what to do. I never know that I can be so confused like this. I actually felt like i was a total loser. At last, he responded to me, oh god, how happy I was; I could feel that this guy could be saved, but still I had no idea what to do next. I guess I was too anxious.

About 15 min later, a group of professors from psychology department came to make intervention. Wow! what an experience ! I felt like watching a movie, sorry I don't mean to offend but I did feel that way. One of my teachers brought a bottle of water and talked to the guy, then he asked to find his close friends.

Around 10min later, I guess, the group of his friends arrived. They all looked so shocked and confused. 5 min passed, a younger sister of the guy, I assumed, also came to the 6th floor and she almost lost her consciousness. Now people were banned from the 6th floor, except important people.

One among the guy's friend, was encouraged to come closer enough to talk to him. The situation became tense and tense. The guy who attempted to jump from the building look more serious now and the people at the ground was looking with anticipation. The guy who came to talk with the suicide attempting guy kept talking and the other guy still didn't respond. Everyone at the ground look worried. Later, the guy who want to jump started responding. They both looked serious. The other friend of them also looked worried. Looking in the eye of suicidal attempting person, I could fell his sadness. He actually looked so gloomy. I couldn't remember actually what they was talking but I distinctly remembered the man said "there is no one can help him". After the serious explanation and the talk for around 30min, his friend was able to convince the guy that he had somebody who care of him; therefore, the guy who attempting to jump decided to come back. Everyone at any floors, especially the ground floor all started to give a big clap to the situation. Yes man!! everyone was released!

Since then, I knew that I have to work harder. One thing is the ability to remain calm, whenever getting a situation. I think I learned a big lesson from this rare type of situation. Consequently, I've been reading any document concerning suicide as much as I can. I know that only reading does not make me
capable to stop people from killing themselves but I want to do what I can to contribute. There are things I found out from my reading :

- First, felling for suicide is just a state of mind like other feelings, to day you want to commit suicide but not tomorrow; however, you neverhave time to regret, if you successfully do it.

- Thinking of suicide can come to everyone mind. You think about it, it does not mean, you are weak, but it is a sing to tell you that you need to rest and pay attention to your self.

- Seeking help is a perfectly acceptable way. It is so natural that you need somebody to comfort during you hardship time. May be, you think you have no one, but believe there are so many good and positive people out there are waiting to listen to you. Probably, this help you to realize that you need to punish yourself, but you just need a person to listen and hear what you say.

- There are so many different aspects of life, you may not want to spent your time in the own small world, try it, focus on different areas of life. You might even say to yourself " why do I ever do this before?"

- Felling of suicide is not necessarily bad. According to the studies concerning lose and grief, grief can be a part of self growing. You never improve without some challenging. Thus, whenever you face a problem, specially, a big a big one, you might notice that you become stronger when you completely overcome it. Thus, the thought of suicide might make you more appreciate your life and others when you get over it.

- You are a wonderful being. You can do countless things with your two hands, which you never imagine you could. I believe in you so what you need to do is to start believing in your self. If you feel there is no one care about you, stop it. I'm here I care for you and so does countless people.

- Good luck with your life!!!